Needing something to make you happy, postponing happiness to some day in the future, or focusing on problems can present barriers to your happiness. They put a condition on your happiness and keep you from believing that you can be happy in the midst of your situation.
~Krystal Lynn Kuehn
Do you need something to make you happy?
I’ll be happy if………. {fill in the blank}
Examples:
If I get my big break & become famous, then I will be happy.
If I was better looking, then I would be happy.
If I didn't have this disability, then I would be happy.
Are you waiting to be happy?
I’ll be happy when…….. {fill in the blank}
Examples:
I’ll be happy when I finish college.
I'll be happy when I get a new job.
I'll be happy when I get married.
Are you focusing on problems that prevent you from being happy?
{fill in the blank}........ is preventing me from being happy and
enjoying life.
Examples:
Financial struggles, Relational conflicts, Lack of confidence, Fear,
Disappointments….
What does it take for you to be happy?
Do you waken to each new day with an inner joy to be alive? Are you simply happy to have another opportunity to make the most of a new day? If you answered no to these question, consider the following:
by Gerry Hopman, BA., C.H.R.P., C.L.Y.L.
Happiness is not associated with wealth or riches. This article provides 12 unique ways to increase personal happiness.